Hello hello, thoughtful human - I'm excited to make your acquaintance!

But before you reach out to me, I wanted to say a little word about boundaries and clear communication - and how they operate in my Universe - so that we're all on the same page, and the proper relationships and connections can be made.

I am a student of the imminently wise & wonderful Randi Buckley and her work with Healthy Boundaries for Kind People. As a result, Team Alexis & I are big on cultivating firm-but-kind containers that allow me to show up fully in the capacities and places I need to.

Here's what you need to know about getting in touch:

  • I am a disabled business owner. - As a disabled person who has a lot on her plate and who requires a tremendous amount of decompression and self-care, it may take up to 14 business days for me to respond to non-urgent/not-time-sensitive requests.

  • I do not accept uncompensated requests for republication of my work from publications or platforms that are monetized. Black women in the United States are already substantially underpaid for our labor. As a result, I do not allow uncompensated republication of my written work, visual art, or any other intellectual property on platforms that make money for their owner, or without CLEAR AND UNAMBIGUOUS credit to me. If you would like to re-publish my work, please inquire about my terms & conditions.

  • I'm always accepting invitations for interviews and the like -- assuming it's a good fit. If you have a blog or other written publication, YouTube channel, radio or TV show, podcast, etc., I'd love to hear from you! However, please keep your pitch short (no more than 3-4 sentences), as well as specifying why you'd like me to be a guest, and what your gig is about - and provide links to your social media, web presence, and previous content if available. The latter is to confirm you are who you say you are and to get a feel for you and your project.

That's it! We're looking forward to hearing from you.

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